A semiconductor light emitting device includes a light emitting layer sandwiched between two spacer layers. The difference between the net polarization in at least one of the spacer layers and the net polarization in the light emitting layer is less than in the device with conventional spacer layers, such as GaN spacer layers. The difference between the net polarization in at least one of the spacer layers and the net polarization in the light emitting layer is less than about 0.02 C/m2. In some embodiments, at least one of the spacer layers is a quaternary alloy of aluminum, indium, gallium, and nitrogen.