The present invention relates to a method for a cell phone based dating service. The method uses telecommunication in the form of phones, cell phones or email. The invention proposes a method or way to exchange the information of two people in a fast way by the Internet or telephone or cell phones, making it possible divide peoples personal information in small portions and to give out these portions step by step. In the invention proposes a system-administrator, the system, will coordinate the exchange of information between the meeting people. The invention uses a computer based partner service system in which a participant can order the system to give out its personalized information in defined modifications.