Wayne R Young

4. We blame the person, not the situation

It is interesting that, for example, when someone is late for a meeting, we do not think about the situation, we accuse the person of being unpunctual and irresponsible, but when we are late, we blame the situation (for example, traffic jams).

5. Each person has a limited number of friends.

The so-called "Dunbar number". This is the maximum number of close connections that a person can have. Its number is from 50 to 150.

6. For example, you need to pick up your luggage at the airport.

This takes you 10 minutes. You get to the baggage claim and immediately pick up your suitcase.

Do you feel impatient and irritated?

Now imagine that you immediately found yourself at the baggage belt and waited 10 minutes for your suitcase. In the second case, you definitely feel more irritated and unhappy.